In reference to: http://forum.osdev.org/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=21003
. Trying not to edit the post again.
I completely agree with JamesM in respect to my intentions.
He will be okay. It is not good to have shame, but it is impossible to avoid. I have had a lot of shame but I have also been very honorable. My intentions were not to create shame, but were instead directed to improve the readability of the post to hopefully create more responses. He created the shame based on how he wants to live his life, culture, ect.
I would feel shame to take away his shame for today he may be weak but tomorrow he is strong. I can not deny him his right to become better. It is shame that drives him to be better. I am wrong to take it away it is not mine.I think where he lives shame is different than the shame in western culture.
Have a good day